I've tried two new chastity devices within the last month, the custom Access Denied belt that was gifted to me a while ago as well as one of my sub's own Kali's teeth bracelet from Malechastitynow.com . Interestingly they are nearly opposite in many ways.
The Access Denied belt lives up to it's name. There's no messing around with any part of the c&b while locked into this device. The obvious drawback is the fact that it does not fit everyone. It is a custom piece, fits around the waist, and between the legs, and is not very adjustable. The company unfortunately is no longer in existence so it isn't possible to order new custom fit pieces. Carrera designs makes a similar, perhaps better, belt and it is still possible to order from them. The locks on the Access Denied belt are designed in such a way that they cannot be cut off with bolt cutters. I appreciate that detail. The cock is slipped through a tube which is then attached to the front cod piece which to me makes it feel like I'm locking it up in two layers in metal- I love that aspect. Just looking at the A.D. belt it is hard to imagine it fitting discreetly under clothes, but it did! Even with the imperfect fit it was unnoticable under the sub's clothing. It is designed to be worn for extended periods, however I only left him in for about four hours because it was a bit too tight around the waist. Ultimately the sizing issue is what will prevent me from enjoying this device more regularly.
The malechastitynow.com Kali's Teeth Bracelet is the ultimate in streamlined devices! Instead of fumbling with cockrings, waist belts, or any other attachments one simple spiked bracelt fits around the shaft of the cock. One thing about the KTB that is a drawback for some people is that I believe that under certain circumstances it could break skin and or leave temporary marks. Most KTB's are more bulky with fewer spikes, the one designed by male chastity now is sleek, attractive, and effective with plenty of spikes! It is extremely wearable and discrete and doesn't impede any bodily functions (except for erection of course!). The KTB allows for full access to the c&b, which is at times quite a plus. At the slightest swelling the KTB delivers torturous, painful pricks to the cock. Instant predicament, and sadistic tease. The sub I play with who wears one, does so for weeks at a time and finds it to be wonderful for long term wear (take note that he is a heavy player and many may not agree!). I'm looking forward to getting one of my own soon.
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Saturday, April 18, 2009
one evening through the next
I just got back from a little jaunt down to L.A., I didn't post about it before because I didn't have any openings to meet new play partners. When I wasn't playing I caught up with some old friends over tea at one of their 'new favorite places'. Royal T is sort of fun, the food and tea were tasty. I found myself more distracted by thoughts that I hope the waitress is getting paid well/ appropriately rather than by her cuteness. As the NY Times article describes it isn't really authentic cosplay, but simply inspired by it. There was also an art installation in the back called a port-a-party which was the size of a port-a-potty which was dark with a disco ball and lights inside and an Ipod facade on the outside. Not particularly interesting to me except the fact that it was so reminiscent of an isolation booth or cell! Being with vanilla ladies, I had to keep that observation and chuckle to myself...
Last week I had a delicious session spanning one evening through the next. I've been wanting to write and reflect on the experience but there were so many different elements that I haven't been able to find a way to summarize succinctly. Instead, I'll do something I haven't done in a while which is go back over the whole session. To begin at the beginning:
I arrived at the hotel and had my bags brought up to his room. It was wonderful to see him again, and after arranging and unpacking a few things I instructed him to drop his trousers- we had a dinner reservation to keep! The Access Denied belt was a tight squeeze and a bit of an awkward fit but it did fit. It was relatively easy to put on thanks to a bit of advice that P. had given me when it was gifted to me. Thanks P.. Besides the full double coverage and the solid belt, the locks are what really makes this device special. Like the Lori's Tube there is no getting out with bolt cutters. As we all know with the CB models one can get out if one really wants to- your Mistress may know and you will have to suffer the consequences (or lack thereof) but you can escape. The Access Denied belt is inescapable.
We arrived at Acquellero just in time, and were seated in the back sitting next to each other. The seasonal menu was a delight to choose from, and we both found things that suited our palates. He introduced me to a kind of Italian wine I had never tried before, and I had a lot of fun choosing cheeses from their display cart and watching the waiter perform 'cheese surgery' as I called it with a beautiful, very sharp and sexy, knife. It had been quite a while since we had seen each other so we had plenty to catch up about. Sitting next to him, I was able to discreetly reach between his legs and run my hands over the smooth hard surface area of the chastity belt. The viscerally unexpected cold hard sensation on my hand inspired me to take his and place it on my thigh.
On our way back to the hotel to change for the evening out I surprised him with a little stop over at Bourbon & Branch. Another, even more intimate setting. Under the table, I slipped out my Clejuso heavy handcuffs and snapped them on. They have an impressive list of spirits and I know he really enjoys good single malt whiskey. Our waitress is striking, with bright red hair and lovely defined features- not to mention a sharp eye and quick tongue. My mind wandered and I imagined her sitting across the table from me, holding my hand and perhaps kissing me while her high heel was dug into his crotch... I noticed that she was having a similar but different affect on my companion, he was obviously taken with her as well. I was glad to discover that we have the same taste in women! Our drinks arrived and the power dynamic became even less subtle, if it had been before, he of course unable to sip his scotch without my permission and assistance.
Back at the hotel, it became apparent that the belt wasn't a good enough fit on his body for long term wear. Ankle shackles and handcuffs in place, I unlocked his belt. Leather bondage sleeves laced up snugly over his arms. Mitts clipped back to force his hands into fists. Straps secured to make it inescapable. Clothing put on over the top so that we could head out to the club! The night club we attended was a weekly event that is supposedly a bondage/ fetish club but also attracts a big dance and goth crowd. It isn't really my scene or somewhere I would frequent otherwise, however the allure of being able to be in bondage in public where it isn't totally the norm yet isn't going to offend anyone is what brought us there. I ordered a drink for myself and water for him. I lounged on a sofa while he knelled at my side. There was a horrible, loud band downstairs and some horrible and possibly unsafe bondage upstairs. In his sport coat, black slacks, and black button down shirt with bondage mitts peeking out he was the best dressed man there, I thought.
Back at the hotel I secured Humane Restraints to his ankles and left the bondage mitts on for bedtime. I locked his ankles to my bottom bedpost and taped piss-pads to the floor underneath him so that I wouldn't have to wake up and he would have to lye in his own mess if he had to go in the middle of the night. A really hot fantasy, but the reality was that we had a big day planned for the following day and he wasn't getting enough sleep. Leaving his ankles secured together, and the bondage sleeves on only without the straps around his chest, I allowed him to sleep on the bed. Sometimes it is better to be flexible and make things work during longer scenes then forcing something that just isn't happening the way we or I planned. I still think that is a hot idea for an overnight and may try it again with someone who has an easier time sleeping in uncomfortable circumstances.
In the morning, eye contact restrictions were put into place. Indiscretions were met with a swift slap to his face, many of which were implemented throughout the course of the day. I woke and ordered breakfast for us. I allowed him to clean himself, and then I placed him into the full set of humane restraints including a belly strap as well as the puffy leather hood. I enjoyed my leisurely meal and coffee, feeding scraps through the mouth opening of the hood from time to time. When I was finished I went off to shower and removed his hood so that he could eat a proper breakfast and be ready for our day. We waited for my car to be brought around by the valet and then I drove us to my dungeon.
Once inside I made use of the upright metal cage. I locked him in and instructed him to remove his clothes while I prepared the dungeon and choose some things for him to wear. From upstairs I was able to look out over the entryway where he was locked up and watch him for several minutes without him noticing, finally he saw me. Surveillance is something I'd like to consider and work into more scenes and situations- it is really a turn on! I picked out stockings, panties, and a bustier. I would later enjoy the smooth soft stockings thoroughly. He had to dress while still in the cage. Several hours of heavy bondage and torture followed. Immobilized in a sleep sack, strapped down to a bondage table. Spread out standing upright, legs locked open. Pushed down on all fours on the spanking bench, ass spread. Erostek in play, such a variety of sensations and such intense pain yet no marks. After having spent so much time together, his submission was that much more satisfying. Knowing the man that he is, the power that he has, and that in that moment he is mine.
Back in the car and up to Union Square, not far from the hotel. I lifted eye contact restrictions just for sushi. Sushi was the perfect thing to nourish us and cushion us as we transitioned out of the dungeon into shopping time. I do think that in general Agent Provocateur is really overrated however their in store service was fantastic when we visited. I picked out two different lingerie sets to try on, and allowed him to peek once I found the right fit (thanks to the help of the lovely sales woman). I of course also punished him with a swift slap to the face behind the closed curtain of the dressing room for breaking the re-instated eye contact restrictions. He softly whispered "I'm sorry Mistress. I take full responsibility" A line I've adopted from the fabulous Mistress Kendra Knight. It is really the right thing for a sub or slave to say, so simple yet completely satisfactory. I found two sets, minnie and then one that has a beautiful rust colored classic flower brocade and lace trim but with a modern construction. We also popped into Betsey Johnson but didn't have time (or tolerance for the crowd) to do lots of looking there. I happened to spot a pair of really hot black patent pumps with just the right heel height, arch shape, and amount of toe pointiness- plus they were on sale.
Back at the hotel I stripped him and pulled out a surprise I had picked up while there. I slipped him into the rubber straight jacket and watched happily as his arousal became more than obvious. I slowly lowered him into the raised bathtub and started the water, letting it slowly fill over and around him while I got into my bikini. One of the reasons we had chosen this particular hotel was because of the spa, but we hadn't had enough time to enjoy it so I decided we were going to have a private soak up in our room instead. I made it a bubble bath and continued to tease and torment him until I was quite ready to rinse off. I brought him into the shower with me, which had two heads. Still in his straight jacket, I pissed all over his hard cock, marking my territory. In the living room of the suite I laid out the rubber sleep sack on the floor next to the couch. Encased, he writhed as I ramped up the erostek from my reclined position.
As the time grew near for us to wrap things up, both because of logistical constraints and because of our waning energy levels, I released him. We ordered dinner, and settled in to relax. To really just unwind and let go for a while we decided to watch some mindless television. He flipped through the channels and then landed on the cartoon network. The show Family Guy was on. We looked at each other and smiled. Do you like this show? Yes. Do you like this show? Yes! Not exactly how either of us expected to end the evening I think, but really relaxing none the less. I was glad we were both at a point already where we felt comfortable enough with each other to simply goof off. If it were a singular experience I would be very pleased and satisfied with it, as well as inspired in many ways. The fact that we will in all likelihood get to take much of our play to further heights in the future makes it even more exciting.
We got to discuss my fantasy for a group scene that he would be the center of. For the sake of discretion it is actually something I won't be able to talk about here... but just think about it- if it is too naughty for my blog it must be beyond fun! I'm really excited to be getting to try it out with someone that I'm building not only trust but more and more chemistry with. With luck we'll get to make it happen in May.
I already thanked you privately, but again it was such a pleasure!
Last week I had a delicious session spanning one evening through the next. I've been wanting to write and reflect on the experience but there were so many different elements that I haven't been able to find a way to summarize succinctly. Instead, I'll do something I haven't done in a while which is go back over the whole session. To begin at the beginning:
I arrived at the hotel and had my bags brought up to his room. It was wonderful to see him again, and after arranging and unpacking a few things I instructed him to drop his trousers- we had a dinner reservation to keep! The Access Denied belt was a tight squeeze and a bit of an awkward fit but it did fit. It was relatively easy to put on thanks to a bit of advice that P. had given me when it was gifted to me. Thanks P.. Besides the full double coverage and the solid belt, the locks are what really makes this device special. Like the Lori's Tube there is no getting out with bolt cutters. As we all know with the CB models one can get out if one really wants to- your Mistress may know and you will have to suffer the consequences (or lack thereof) but you can escape. The Access Denied belt is inescapable.
We arrived at Acquellero just in time, and were seated in the back sitting next to each other. The seasonal menu was a delight to choose from, and we both found things that suited our palates. He introduced me to a kind of Italian wine I had never tried before, and I had a lot of fun choosing cheeses from their display cart and watching the waiter perform 'cheese surgery' as I called it with a beautiful, very sharp and sexy, knife. It had been quite a while since we had seen each other so we had plenty to catch up about. Sitting next to him, I was able to discreetly reach between his legs and run my hands over the smooth hard surface area of the chastity belt. The viscerally unexpected cold hard sensation on my hand inspired me to take his and place it on my thigh.
On our way back to the hotel to change for the evening out I surprised him with a little stop over at Bourbon & Branch. Another, even more intimate setting. Under the table, I slipped out my Clejuso heavy handcuffs and snapped them on. They have an impressive list of spirits and I know he really enjoys good single malt whiskey. Our waitress is striking, with bright red hair and lovely defined features- not to mention a sharp eye and quick tongue. My mind wandered and I imagined her sitting across the table from me, holding my hand and perhaps kissing me while her high heel was dug into his crotch... I noticed that she was having a similar but different affect on my companion, he was obviously taken with her as well. I was glad to discover that we have the same taste in women! Our drinks arrived and the power dynamic became even less subtle, if it had been before, he of course unable to sip his scotch without my permission and assistance.
Back at the hotel, it became apparent that the belt wasn't a good enough fit on his body for long term wear. Ankle shackles and handcuffs in place, I unlocked his belt. Leather bondage sleeves laced up snugly over his arms. Mitts clipped back to force his hands into fists. Straps secured to make it inescapable. Clothing put on over the top so that we could head out to the club! The night club we attended was a weekly event that is supposedly a bondage/ fetish club but also attracts a big dance and goth crowd. It isn't really my scene or somewhere I would frequent otherwise, however the allure of being able to be in bondage in public where it isn't totally the norm yet isn't going to offend anyone is what brought us there. I ordered a drink for myself and water for him. I lounged on a sofa while he knelled at my side. There was a horrible, loud band downstairs and some horrible and possibly unsafe bondage upstairs. In his sport coat, black slacks, and black button down shirt with bondage mitts peeking out he was the best dressed man there, I thought.
Back at the hotel I secured Humane Restraints to his ankles and left the bondage mitts on for bedtime. I locked his ankles to my bottom bedpost and taped piss-pads to the floor underneath him so that I wouldn't have to wake up and he would have to lye in his own mess if he had to go in the middle of the night. A really hot fantasy, but the reality was that we had a big day planned for the following day and he wasn't getting enough sleep. Leaving his ankles secured together, and the bondage sleeves on only without the straps around his chest, I allowed him to sleep on the bed. Sometimes it is better to be flexible and make things work during longer scenes then forcing something that just isn't happening the way we or I planned. I still think that is a hot idea for an overnight and may try it again with someone who has an easier time sleeping in uncomfortable circumstances.
In the morning, eye contact restrictions were put into place. Indiscretions were met with a swift slap to his face, many of which were implemented throughout the course of the day. I woke and ordered breakfast for us. I allowed him to clean himself, and then I placed him into the full set of humane restraints including a belly strap as well as the puffy leather hood. I enjoyed my leisurely meal and coffee, feeding scraps through the mouth opening of the hood from time to time. When I was finished I went off to shower and removed his hood so that he could eat a proper breakfast and be ready for our day. We waited for my car to be brought around by the valet and then I drove us to my dungeon.
Once inside I made use of the upright metal cage. I locked him in and instructed him to remove his clothes while I prepared the dungeon and choose some things for him to wear. From upstairs I was able to look out over the entryway where he was locked up and watch him for several minutes without him noticing, finally he saw me. Surveillance is something I'd like to consider and work into more scenes and situations- it is really a turn on! I picked out stockings, panties, and a bustier. I would later enjoy the smooth soft stockings thoroughly. He had to dress while still in the cage. Several hours of heavy bondage and torture followed. Immobilized in a sleep sack, strapped down to a bondage table. Spread out standing upright, legs locked open. Pushed down on all fours on the spanking bench, ass spread. Erostek in play, such a variety of sensations and such intense pain yet no marks. After having spent so much time together, his submission was that much more satisfying. Knowing the man that he is, the power that he has, and that in that moment he is mine.
Back in the car and up to Union Square, not far from the hotel. I lifted eye contact restrictions just for sushi. Sushi was the perfect thing to nourish us and cushion us as we transitioned out of the dungeon into shopping time. I do think that in general Agent Provocateur is really overrated however their in store service was fantastic when we visited. I picked out two different lingerie sets to try on, and allowed him to peek once I found the right fit (thanks to the help of the lovely sales woman). I of course also punished him with a swift slap to the face behind the closed curtain of the dressing room for breaking the re-instated eye contact restrictions. He softly whispered "I'm sorry Mistress. I take full responsibility" A line I've adopted from the fabulous Mistress Kendra Knight. It is really the right thing for a sub or slave to say, so simple yet completely satisfactory. I found two sets, minnie and then one that has a beautiful rust colored classic flower brocade and lace trim but with a modern construction. We also popped into Betsey Johnson but didn't have time (or tolerance for the crowd) to do lots of looking there. I happened to spot a pair of really hot black patent pumps with just the right heel height, arch shape, and amount of toe pointiness- plus they were on sale.
Back at the hotel I stripped him and pulled out a surprise I had picked up while there. I slipped him into the rubber straight jacket and watched happily as his arousal became more than obvious. I slowly lowered him into the raised bathtub and started the water, letting it slowly fill over and around him while I got into my bikini. One of the reasons we had chosen this particular hotel was because of the spa, but we hadn't had enough time to enjoy it so I decided we were going to have a private soak up in our room instead. I made it a bubble bath and continued to tease and torment him until I was quite ready to rinse off. I brought him into the shower with me, which had two heads. Still in his straight jacket, I pissed all over his hard cock, marking my territory. In the living room of the suite I laid out the rubber sleep sack on the floor next to the couch. Encased, he writhed as I ramped up the erostek from my reclined position.
As the time grew near for us to wrap things up, both because of logistical constraints and because of our waning energy levels, I released him. We ordered dinner, and settled in to relax. To really just unwind and let go for a while we decided to watch some mindless television. He flipped through the channels and then landed on the cartoon network. The show Family Guy was on. We looked at each other and smiled. Do you like this show? Yes. Do you like this show? Yes! Not exactly how either of us expected to end the evening I think, but really relaxing none the less. I was glad we were both at a point already where we felt comfortable enough with each other to simply goof off. If it were a singular experience I would be very pleased and satisfied with it, as well as inspired in many ways. The fact that we will in all likelihood get to take much of our play to further heights in the future makes it even more exciting.
We got to discuss my fantasy for a group scene that he would be the center of. For the sake of discretion it is actually something I won't be able to talk about here... but just think about it- if it is too naughty for my blog it must be beyond fun! I'm really excited to be getting to try it out with someone that I'm building not only trust but more and more chemistry with. With luck we'll get to make it happen in May.
I already thanked you privately, but again it was such a pleasure!
Monday, April 13, 2009
Spring visit to the Midwest: Dates Finalized!
Later I'm hoping to have time to write about what I got up to last week- but for now I just wanted to let you all know that Mistress Kendra and I have finalized the dates for our trip to the Midwest. They are:
Columbus, Ohio: May 11-14
and
Chicago, Illinois: May 14-18
I have had some very intense and erotic experiences playing alongside Mistress Kendra and I hope to add to my memory bank during our time terrorizing the Midwest together. Double sessions are highly encouraged. Passing a captive in heavy bondage between us, sharing a toilet, ganging up on sissies, and torturing painsluts are just a few of the things we get up to together.
We also still have openings for experienced service oriented subs and slaves who have references and are interested in going the extra mile out of session to make our travels more leisurely and relaxed- as they should be!
Columbus, Ohio: May 11-14
and
Chicago, Illinois: May 14-18
I have had some very intense and erotic experiences playing alongside Mistress Kendra and I hope to add to my memory bank during our time terrorizing the Midwest together. Double sessions are highly encouraged. Passing a captive in heavy bondage between us, sharing a toilet, ganging up on sissies, and torturing painsluts are just a few of the things we get up to together.
We also still have openings for experienced service oriented subs and slaves who have references and are interested in going the extra mile out of session to make our travels more leisurely and relaxed- as they should be!
Wednesday, April 8, 2009
Man on Wire
Last night I watched the movie Man on Wire , with the lovely Miss Violette. It chronicles the tight wire walking career of Philippe Petit, the pinnacle of which was his walk between NYC's Twin Towers. A breath taking feat of artistic disobediance. Even to see it on film was moving.
What struck me about Philippe, and his collaborators (those who helped him to engenier and rig the wire) was their drive, and determination. They had this clarity that it was the right thing to do, that it needed to be done. They all seemed to aggree that the Towers were meant for Philippe to walk between. That desire to live on the edge as well as... a fetishist's fixation on the idea.
The way they spoke reminded me a lot of my friends who are edge players. What compells us to reach for primal fear? To take someone to the edge and force them to look over? Given that what I do is within the context of a safe, risk-aware, environment in which the risks of harm are low, I think it is something very similar to what compelled Philippe and his collaborators.
Definitely worth watching.
Tonight and tomorrow I have some very fun romping around the city in store. I'm off to pack for that. First thing going into my bag: the Access Denied belt!
What struck me about Philippe, and his collaborators (those who helped him to engenier and rig the wire) was their drive, and determination. They had this clarity that it was the right thing to do, that it needed to be done. They all seemed to aggree that the Towers were meant for Philippe to walk between. That desire to live on the edge as well as... a fetishist's fixation on the idea.
The way they spoke reminded me a lot of my friends who are edge players. What compells us to reach for primal fear? To take someone to the edge and force them to look over? Given that what I do is within the context of a safe, risk-aware, environment in which the risks of harm are low, I think it is something very similar to what compelled Philippe and his collaborators.
Definitely worth watching.
Tonight and tomorrow I have some very fun romping around the city in store. I'm off to pack for that. First thing going into my bag: the Access Denied belt!
Sunday, April 5, 2009
Spring Cleaning
A common anecdote among Dommes is how funny it is when subs/slaves assume that we spend all of our time in fetish wear. Now, I do know a Mistress or two for whom it is true that almost any day of the week they are donning leather or latex and several more for whom heels and lingerie are an everyday part of life. For many however, myself included, lounging around in latex is not a common occurrence outside of play, or going out for a particular occasion. Today though, I was re organizing my toys, gear, and fetishwear and I couldn't help but slip into one of my favorite latex outfits. The irony of cleaning my closet in a rubber outfit tickled my funny-bone so I had to snap a few photos (taken with the webcam built into my Macbook) enjoy!
Saturday, April 4, 2009
Let it flow
He arrived yesterday, luckily able to add this as a stop over on his way back to Australia. I greeted him, he sat down on the leather couch as I plugged in my erostek312 just to make sure it was fully juiced. Heavy Clejuso hand cuffs and leg irons over his clothes while I selected locks and pull out chains. We talked about what we each did the previous evening and I started to lock him into leather fist mitts and ankle restraints. His arousal was apparent, and as soon as his clothes were peeled off I laced a hood onto him tightly. Under the couch there is a block with several attachment points. Chains attached from behind and running up over the back were secured to his hood, biceps, and fists before being lead down and anchored to the front as well. Legs fastened in as well. The erostek was fully charged by then, and I was ready to play... to be continued
Thursday, April 2, 2009
A few of my favorite things...
...besides Control and Torture!
I am going to have the pleasure of spending a full day and night with a very sweet and kinky gentleman next week. We've met before, and definitely have great chemistry. Last time, we didn't get to know much about each other. This time, our session is going to include both nightlife and leisurely dining, luxury hotel and spa accommodations and of course plenty of decadent play (and torture) in and out of the Dungeon. I'm delighted to have so many fun activities in store (as well as a few secret ones I've yet to tell him about) but most of all I'm really glad for the chance to get to know him better. A few days ago I put together a list of a few of my favorite restuarants for him to choose from- it was so much fun that I got carried away and made this big list of stuff I love in San Francisco. I'm posting it on my website as well, but I thought I'd also post it here and give you a peek into another side of me.
Perhaps one or many of these things will inspire you:
Dining:
-Local delicacies at the Ferry Building, Saturdays there is also a Farmer’s Market. Just a short cab ride from S.F. MOMA and Yerba Buena Center for the Arts.
-Delicious and lively Japanese fare at Ozumo.
-Decadent and playful gourmet seafood with impeccable service and imaginative decor at Farallon, very convenient to the theater district.
-Contemporary, adventurous, and mostly raw seafood at Bar Crudo.
-About an hour and a half from the City, set upon a dock on a Bay (the Tomales Bay) the Marshall Store offers BBQ local oysters, local cheeses, and priceless tranquility. Down-home yet beautifully executed. A short drive from Stinson Beach, Point Reyes Seashore, and Muir Woods this is the perfect addition to an outdoor day trip.
-Exotic yet comforting and nourishing, I love stopping into Samovar for anything from a light snack or sweet treat to a full breakfast or lunch. The beautiful ‘Zen Valley’ location is located in the lovely Hayes Valley shopping district walking distance to Dark Garden and other boutiques.
Shopping:
-Mr. S Leather, the only game in town as far as I’m concerned for quality BDSM gear and toys. Locally owned with on-site leather and rubber craftspeople.
-Dark Garden, while instant gratification is less common here, their custom work is impeccable and they are able to bring our most fanciful corsetry desires to life.
-Dollhouse Bettie, vintage, classic, and contemporary fine lingerie. Convenient to Golden Gate Park, and thus the De Young and Academy of Sciences!
-Fillmore street is home to a variety of fun shops and cafes including the fabulous Betsey Johnson boutique and a small luxurious lingerie boutique Toujours.
Nightlife:
-You might not guess this about me, but I love visiting strip clubs! Walking around historic North Beach, perhaps even stopping into City Lights before enjoying the great variety beautiful erotic entertainers available. This also presents great potential for some fun T&D + D/s games...
-Tasty cocktails with premium spirits and fresh local produce in a sexy, intimate environment at Bourbon & Branch , don’t worry, I already know the password!
-Great live music is available almost any night of the week in San Francisco. I like a really wide variety of genres and there are always tons of events to choose from so depending on what you enjoy we’re sure to find something fab.
Outdoors:
-Right in the City there are several beautiful outdoor places to romp through:
*Golden Gate Park is host to a multitude of possibilities within itself.
*Walking from Fisherman’s Warf down past the Maritime Museum and Fort Mason, over to Crissy Field is a great way to see the Bay from many angles.
*When the weather is right, a visit to Baker Beach is always at the top of my list!
-Just a short drive South of the city along route 1 there are many small you-pick berry farms. The coastline, in combination with delectable fresh strawberries or raspberries is heavenly. One of my favorite spots is Swanton Berry Farm.
-Walking or hiking through Muir Woods.
The Arts:
-San Francisco has several world class art museums as well as a few smaller gems. My favorites include:
*S.F. MOMA
*San Francisco Historical Society and Museum
*The De Young
-There is a vibrant gallery scene in the City and I love to nose around to find out what may be happening on a particular date should you wish to experience the smaller local artists.
Other Daytime Activities:
-The Nob Hill Spa, it’s no secret that I love to be pampered!
-Bike Riding, rentals are easy to find
-Sports events, my favorite sports are Soccer and Rugby but I enjoy most others.
Local Getaways:
-Point Reyes
-Big Sur
-Calistoga
-Guerneville and the Russian River
I am going to have the pleasure of spending a full day and night with a very sweet and kinky gentleman next week. We've met before, and definitely have great chemistry. Last time, we didn't get to know much about each other. This time, our session is going to include both nightlife and leisurely dining, luxury hotel and spa accommodations and of course plenty of decadent play (and torture) in and out of the Dungeon. I'm delighted to have so many fun activities in store (as well as a few secret ones I've yet to tell him about) but most of all I'm really glad for the chance to get to know him better. A few days ago I put together a list of a few of my favorite restuarants for him to choose from- it was so much fun that I got carried away and made this big list of stuff I love in San Francisco. I'm posting it on my website as well, but I thought I'd also post it here and give you a peek into another side of me.
Perhaps one or many of these things will inspire you:
Dining:
-Local delicacies at the Ferry Building, Saturdays there is also a Farmer’s Market. Just a short cab ride from S.F. MOMA and Yerba Buena Center for the Arts.
-Delicious and lively Japanese fare at Ozumo.
-Decadent and playful gourmet seafood with impeccable service and imaginative decor at Farallon, very convenient to the theater district.
-Contemporary, adventurous, and mostly raw seafood at Bar Crudo.
-About an hour and a half from the City, set upon a dock on a Bay (the Tomales Bay) the Marshall Store offers BBQ local oysters, local cheeses, and priceless tranquility. Down-home yet beautifully executed. A short drive from Stinson Beach, Point Reyes Seashore, and Muir Woods this is the perfect addition to an outdoor day trip.
-Exotic yet comforting and nourishing, I love stopping into Samovar for anything from a light snack or sweet treat to a full breakfast or lunch. The beautiful ‘Zen Valley’ location is located in the lovely Hayes Valley shopping district walking distance to Dark Garden and other boutiques.
Shopping:
-Mr. S Leather, the only game in town as far as I’m concerned for quality BDSM gear and toys. Locally owned with on-site leather and rubber craftspeople.
-Dark Garden, while instant gratification is less common here, their custom work is impeccable and they are able to bring our most fanciful corsetry desires to life.
-Dollhouse Bettie, vintage, classic, and contemporary fine lingerie. Convenient to Golden Gate Park, and thus the De Young and Academy of Sciences!
-Fillmore street is home to a variety of fun shops and cafes including the fabulous Betsey Johnson boutique and a small luxurious lingerie boutique Toujours.
Nightlife:
-You might not guess this about me, but I love visiting strip clubs! Walking around historic North Beach, perhaps even stopping into City Lights before enjoying the great variety beautiful erotic entertainers available. This also presents great potential for some fun T&D + D/s games...
-Tasty cocktails with premium spirits and fresh local produce in a sexy, intimate environment at Bourbon & Branch , don’t worry, I already know the password!
-Great live music is available almost any night of the week in San Francisco. I like a really wide variety of genres and there are always tons of events to choose from so depending on what you enjoy we’re sure to find something fab.
Outdoors:
-Right in the City there are several beautiful outdoor places to romp through:
*Golden Gate Park is host to a multitude of possibilities within itself.
*Walking from Fisherman’s Warf down past the Maritime Museum and Fort Mason, over to Crissy Field is a great way to see the Bay from many angles.
*When the weather is right, a visit to Baker Beach is always at the top of my list!
-Just a short drive South of the city along route 1 there are many small you-pick berry farms. The coastline, in combination with delectable fresh strawberries or raspberries is heavenly. One of my favorite spots is Swanton Berry Farm.
-Walking or hiking through Muir Woods.
The Arts:
-San Francisco has several world class art museums as well as a few smaller gems. My favorites include:
*S.F. MOMA
*San Francisco Historical Society and Museum
*The De Young
-There is a vibrant gallery scene in the City and I love to nose around to find out what may be happening on a particular date should you wish to experience the smaller local artists.
Other Daytime Activities:
-The Nob Hill Spa, it’s no secret that I love to be pampered!
-Bike Riding, rentals are easy to find
-Sports events, my favorite sports are Soccer and Rugby but I enjoy most others.
Local Getaways:
-Point Reyes
-Big Sur
-Calistoga
-Guerneville and the Russian River
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