Time flies when you're having fun!

My birthday month ended with a bang and I've continued enjoying being back in S.F.. Romping and playing in and out of the dungeon over the last couple of weeks has kept me happily away from the computer. Interesting developments since I've posted:

1. My collection of stilettos has doubled. No joke.
2. Travel dates to Portland have been set, and I have availability Nov. 18 & 19
3. Fall is in full effect, so my sexy sweaters and boots have come out of the closet!
4. I got my motorcycle license and will be shopping for riding leathers and a bike next week (which are a really appreciated gift from one of you- thank you, you know who you are)
5. My collection of gear has expanded with some fun small new bondage and chastity pieces which you should be hearing about here in stories and fantasies in the coming weeks.

I'm off to do a shoot today with Larry Utley, I have been thinking about this particular idea for a shoot for over a year and I think that he is just the person to help me bring these images to life. He is a really great photographer because he is focused on capturing images of people as they are doing or being what they love- he isn't hung up on his own idea of how they should look. He was actually the first professional photographer to take photos of me and I've always been grateful for that experience. Anyway, this shoot should be interesting. Nothing really over the top, just hoping to catch and highlight many of my subtle fetishes and my personal style. Wish me luck!

P.s. for a good time check out this hot story about a session with Me.

Residenz Sterling

My slave has been in town and serving me since Thursday evening. We have been staying in a private vacation home he secured in the middle of one of my favorite neighborhoods in San Francisco. There has been a lot going on between the dungeons on both sides of the Bay and our home-away-from-home, and maybe later this week after he leaves Monday afternoon I will get a chance to share some of the stories about it: heavy corporal, cigarette torture, real domestic servitude, voice/ speech training, judgment, of course enforced chastity, and affirmations of slavery and ownership.Tonight he is cooking and serving dinner for Myself and five other Femdoms...

One fantasy that keeps coming to mind for me is the idea of Residenz Sterling, at the Russian River. Not going to go into detail, but for those kindred spirits out there I'm sure you can fill in the blank space with plenty.

A day with My leather slut

It started early this morning when I woke up. After dressing and walking down the block for a cup of coffee I returned to my desk and pulled up the email correspondence I've been carrying on with the tart of a subbie leather fetishist I was to see. We met for the first time almost exactly a year ago, and since had been in touch off and on- our travel schedules never quite coinciding.

I packed my bag to bring to the dungeon: thigh-high leather boots, my form fitting leather mini, the custom leather underbust corset, a soft black camisole and a harsh little leather vest. It was novel to watch the morning hustle and bustle of Downtown S.F. as I walked from the guarded car park over and up to the play space. After arranging candles and setting out select bondage pieces, as well as plugging in my Erostek 312 to charge, I replaced my flat leather boots for the spike-heeled thigh highs. The warm thickness slid over my stockinged leg with ease, and the neat little ankle-zipper pulled this second-skin taught and into place. Lacing my corset came next, using the mirror to make sure I was pulling the proper strings tight and to see that they were all lined up in a pleasing fashion. At the vanity I lightly brushed on powder from my compact, soft red lipstick, and gentle green eyeshadow (it was mid-morning after all!).

Not twenty minutes later he would be at the same vanity. I wanted a perfectly made up doll to play with, and that was what he was to become. A leather skirt not unlike my own, a lace bustier, breast inserts, a shawl to narrow her shoulders, and red strappy spiked heels put her in the right mood. Let's not forget the black satin and lace panties underneath it all. She sat up straight and cocked her chin demurely as I brushed out the long blonde wig which now framed her face. Sweeping bangs made her look almost innocent. Looking up at me, she accepted a full face of make up.

Locked with arms and legs both spread open wide the torture began. Clamps, ropes, and relentless teasing. Black pins crushing her nipples made blows to her breasts all the more brutal. Worked up into a horny mess, she crawled around the room wantonly wagging her bum in the air. Her reward: my leather boots. Standing above her, I watched her eyes as I explained that messing up her lipstick would be a punishable offense. Open those lips wide and use your tongue. Tips of the toes to the tops of my thighs, greedily sniffing the rich scent her tongue scurried over each crease and along each curve of my boots.

To be continued...

In West Hollywood / Beverly Hills with Mistress Kendra!

Kendra Knight and I are having a blast in L.A. ... No time to write between the shopping, art, music, and amazing food (yay, restaurant week!) but wanted to let you know that we have some availability this Friday and if you would like to join one or both of us for a session at our West Hollywood/ Beverly Hills location you should get in touch:

www.mistresskendra.com
(510) 755-7244

or: ms.tara.sterling@gmail.com

A peek inside my correspondence

Excerpt from an email sent out this morning, to a play partner who has expressed interest in slave training:

...I think I've been clear thus far that all of this is a learning process for both of us- learning about each other. The basic phases of training with me include evaluation, basic training, and then classic slave-applications as well as of course play throughout. Basic training includes social and physical training which will help you better relate to Me, and classic slave-applications are where you learn the mechanics of serving Me. The specifics of both of these things are entirely based on what I discover through evaluation which is a process of extensive, invasive interviewing and interrogation as well as testing. Often these phases overlap, I am constantly evaluating, and you may learn some classic slave-applications while still working on basic training.

The success of this training process relies on your desire, authenticity, honesty, patience, and tenacity as well as My desire, commitment, clarity and thoroughness (among other things!) as well as our general compatibility.

So that leads us to logistis: the where, and when of all of this. I have been spoiled by my current slave/ property because he was/ is able to do phone training sessions 2+ times per week and session for multiple days at a time multiple times a year as well as extensive email contact in between. That spaciousness really allowed us to go deep, fast. I tell you this for the sake of transparency: coming up with a training process within your budget will be new for me. I'm happy for the challenge.

Phone sessions are XXX per approx. 1 hour and live sessions are as posted on my website. I suggest that we start with one phone session per month and one live session every other month. It may seem dauntingly slow at this moment (it does to me at first thought) however I think one foot in front of the other, and within both of our logistical limits, is a great way to begin.

Things that will help speed things along:

-Mindfulness around My instructions. I ask for specific things for a reason. For example if I send a list of topics I plan to discuss with you over the phone there is no need to respond to them in detail over email.
-Patience: you are not the only man I have waiting for responses from Me. Each is uniquely important, however understanding that I am a busy person is key.
-As I mentioned, honesty and authenticity are required. There are no "right" answers, the probing that I am going to be doing is to ensure success and be sure that I don't set us up for failure!
-I reserve the right to break my own rules. Double standards are the name of the game. I do respect my submissives and slaves, however this is a Femdom connection and what I say is law, no matter if it contradicts past commands. I will not apologize for changing my mind, or making executive decisions. Training and agreements are meerely a way to prepare you to better interact with me, I refuse to have my desires bound by my own protocol. (That does not mean limits will not be respected.)

If you are aggreeable I would like to proceed with our first phone session and begin the evaluation process.

Do let me know what your thoughts and questions are. As soon as you tell me that you are ready to start I will send you study topics/prompts so that you are prepared for the phone session.

Again, I appreciate that you have come to Me with your desire to submit and I truly hope to know more about you and possibly possess you.

-Ms. Sterling

Birthday Month!

October is my birthday month, and instead of sticking to one day I plan to make the whole thing fun and special. Well, I like to make every day fun and special, my birthday is really just an excuse.

I just got back from a weekend getaway a few hours North of the city, which was a great way to recharge after a busy kink-filled week, which included lots of inescapable bondage, metal, rubber, subs expressing interest in being trained as slaves, and the first of my birthday treats. One of the people I played with was new to me, we had never met before, but he brought me a box of all-natural (some organic) artisan chocolate on top of which was a tiny card that said "Happy Birthday." I really appreciated the fact that he had noticed that detail on my website, I had in fact forgotten that the month was approaching! I've also received several sweet emails which I appreciate as well. Having (ironically) not played with rubber while in Berlin it was a pleasure to get gummi'ed up, and to pull out the rubber straight jacket.

I'm looking forward to seeing and meeting some great people this week, and to giving away many birthday spankings all month!

Going Deeper: a first encounter

After initial testing...

I twirl the numbers on the black, metal combination locks. Three of them hold the steel door of the upright, all-metal coffin-sized cage. His hands locked into fist-mitts and ankles in manacles, I lock each limb to the bars of the cage, and pull his arms behind his back to secure them firmly in place with a strap across each bicep. The eager piggy nose was fitted with a small metal leash earlier, and now it is pulled taught and secured to the cage as well. C&B firmly bound, spread and secured in place, adorned with electrical bands.

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Underside vulnerable and legs secured in place, he can't close or protect his soft and tender areas. Arms locked in place. Erostek pulsing. Eyesight restricted. Tummy strap holding him still. Resistance isn't on the menu. He reverts back to the beginning of this several hour long conversation, in which it became clear that from his position there was really only one practical option: "Yes Mistress."

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Fingers held into fists by tight wraps. Nasty Rubber straightjacket tight on his nasty piggy skin. Flat on his back, adjustable pillow underneath, saran wrap holds his head firmly in place. Needless to say he will be here for a while. Silicone toe-separators inhibit squirming, as do the tight leg, hip, and chest straps. Corona tip and bigger ring get to frying him, while a funnel in his mouth makes him vulnerable to violation of another kind. Nose stretched by metal hooks. Meat.