Saturday, July 4, 2009

fyi dungeon delights promo

Dungeon Delights is running a really nice promo/sale right now and there are a few things I have on my wishlist from their site (primarily the five piece set with spreader bars). Worth checking out!

P.S. All is well- and very busy! I should have time to update by the end of the week though before I head to Sardinia.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Barcelona June 25-30

I've decided to take a jaunt over to Barcelona for a few days next week- if you happen to be in the area I am open to additional sessions June 26th &27th... especially if they involve the pool or the beach! I won't be doing any bondage or electrical torture on this trip, however spanking, foot, stocking & armpit worship, humiliation, toilet training, and ball busting are all particularly encouraged.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Alles Klar!

Hallo from Berlin! I just got back to my beautiful, cozy, quiet apartment from an extended session (a couple of days) that felt to both myself and the submissive who was visiting like much longer than it was because of the sheer volume of activities that we were able to pack in! Sight-seeing, dining, shopping, and generally galavanting around town under gorgeous blue skies, and warm summer rains. We also had the pleasure of meeting two different German Mistresses for private, very exciting and erotic sessions. Just outside my door there is a farmer's market happening today, so off I go for a little change of pace...

Things I'm thinking about that I may write about later: age and my love of old men, what a generous spirit in a submissive looks like and how it affects me and their time with me, the many sides of Berlin and the pleasure of traveling within this city, going to visit the different German Mistresses and my enjoyment of that!, extended servitude- trials and triumphs.

Monday, June 8, 2009

Quick note

This week has been full for me, with a lot of the things that early June brings for most people in S.F. : so many art and performance events I've found myself having to flip coins to decide where to spend some evenings, preparing for Summer travels, and attending grad ceremonies and celebrations! I also had the pleasure of being tour guide one afternoon for a lovely, interesting Domme from NYC who is definitely a kindred spirit and who I hope to perhaps play alongside in the future. Today I'm off to meet a sub who is new to me, and who I will be having some ridiculous fun with in Berlin in just a couple of weeks... Think raunch and toilet play, cross dressing and shopping, humiliation, German sex and kink night clubs, tortures and objectification- as well as some vanilla sight seeing and dining! I'm so glad to be adding this session to the first month of my visit, two full days of kinky decadence should set the tone for a really enjoyable stay in Europe.

I've briefly mentioned CT's blog before- it was introduced as a way by which I could conveniently check up on him without having to contact him during busy weeks, and a way that I could easily check up on the basics before speaking with him so that we don't have to go over the same things that we've been talking about for over a year now and focus more on the next level of training. Also, I find the idea of surveillance hot (more about that later) and this is kind of like a taste of that for me. Anyhow, many people are curious about my relationship with CT and CT himself as his extended commitment to being a chaste servant is not exactly commonplace. I've decided to share his online journal link with you all: http://chastitytoy.blogspot.com he also has a flickr stream as one of his assignments is to take a photo every day (that assignment started out as photos of himself in chastity but after about three months of that I got bored and changed it to himself in chastity in front of something different each day, then finally after several more months, maybe six, it morphed again into simply a creative outlet for him). You can find the link to his flickr photostream on his blog.

To those who I owe emails and phone calls- apologies, and as always I appreciate your patience and continued adoration through my more hecticly scheduled times.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

The more I travel the more I realize what a California Girl I really am. I love it here, and each time I return I appreciate it that much more. There's always a sense of excitement when I get home to S.F. . I'm enjoying my last couple of weeks here now before I head to Europe for the Summer. Since I got back from the Midwest I got right into the countdown and prep for my next journey, however I'm doing my best to slow down and be here, now.

I've gotten some good news from CT, who was a bit out of commission because of some health stuff that needed to be attended to- but is back on track now. I think that the break actually re energized me about his training and gave me some time to reflect and collect my thoughts about what direction we're heading in for the time being. At this point we've done a lot of bonding, control, and power exchange as well as basic life skills training (getting him in better physical shape for one thing) but now it is time for more structured classic BDSM slave training and I'm excited for it. We also have restructured our routine communications to include an online journal for him that I get to check up on when I feel like it instead of the update emails that he used to send. I like that for several reasons, one being that it gives me feeling of having some power of surveillance over him.

About a week ago, I was invited to attend a dinner celebrating the collaring of Violette Thorngate's servant r. . Myself as well as a couple of other friends of hers who have witnessed r.'s service and devotion over the years were there to witness their connection. We all said a few words about what his submission to her has meant to us over the years, as well as expressed appreciation to him for the ways that he has enriched our dear friend Violette's life. I was personally impacted by r.'s service early on when I first met him (during my first year of sessioning, shortly after I met Violette). Theirs was the first relationship between a pro domme and a client that I encountered which extended beyond dungeon walls and structured sessions into a more devoted and intricate D/s relationship. It gave me a sense, early on, of what it was possible to build.

Sunday, May 17, 2009

Tomorrow I'll be arriving home in San Francisco. I'm really beat from a long day at The Art Institute museum here in Chicago as well as hours of riding bikes along the lake. It was a wonderful way to end a lovely visit. Mistress Kendra and I lucked out, as we got to play inside the first few days when it was chilly and rainy and then today when we wanted to spend time outdoors it was all sunshine! Thanks to all of the wonderful submissives who have made this trip so fab.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Unexpected Treats

Columbus has been full of unexpected treats for Mistress Kendra and I. We've enjoyed some really fun double sessions, and have found the city itself to be more lively, relaxing and inviting then we thought it would be. We've managed to find some great food as well! Tomorrow we're off to Chicago- I'm hoping to get in some time at the lake between play... and I actually have not been able to get one particular fantasy out of my head regarding being served in public either lake side or at the pool at our hotel. I just love the thought of laying out and relaxing in the sun with Mistress Kendra and having a submissive pool boy on had to take care of all the little things like fetching drinks, getting towels for us as we get out of the pool, applying sunscreen, foot rubs, and whatever else we may want. He would have to wear a speedo of course, no matter his age or body type, for our entertainment.

Just a side note: I have been lucky enough to get to use my new KTB several times since I got it last week (including a trip to some North Beach strip joints). I am more and more in love with it. I think every woman I know should own one!